I am not a professional writer, but as Dan and I agreed to each record some of our experiences, I will attempt to describe our first adventure with sex outside of our marriage. It happened just this way and I will include as many of my memories about that night as possible.

Our situation was as common as it gets. Because we became serious about each other when we were very young, my husband was the only man I had ever had, although, being three years older, he had a few experiences before we met. As it turns out, he was seduced at 15 by a friend of his Mother's while staying at her house. I didn't believe this until his Mother confirmed later that she had found out about it and dropped this woman as a friend. He remembers it as a good experience, but that's another story.

In the first two years of our marriage we couldn't get enough of each other. After that we started trying other things to 'spice up' our sex life. This ranged from sexy outfits to mild bondage, taking Polaroid's, some film footage of me (super 8mm), and even some exhibitionism. For a while, these strengthened our desire for each other and, as long as it remained between the two of us, was fine with me. In fact, I found myself enjoying the means as much as the end.

The third year into our marriage, our oldest daughter was born, and as anyone can tell you things really change. For the next year we concentrated on being a family, which we still do, but to the extent that other things in our life were put on hold. When we had any time alone we seemed to be just too tired to even think of making love, let alone the time required to play as we had been. Besides, I was a mother now. My husband, Dan, was the first to express his displeasure with the state of our sex life, or lack there of, and we had a few serious arguments over what to do about it.

In his attempt to liven things up, Dan had began a subscription to a magazine that had stories supposedly composed by real people who had had various sexual experiences. When we were alone he began reading to me, or asking me to read, articles he found exciting. At first they did nothing for me. I would read them only to please him and then we would make love afterwards in which he showed a renewed passion. I mostly found the articles threatening because many of them involved inviting others into a married couples bed and he was talking about us actually doing it! There was simply no way I was going to be comfortable with being with anyone other than my husband and I was hurt that he would find such things exciting or acceptable. But he persisted and after a while I found myself developing an interest in a few of the stories myself. They seemed to involve a theme of a woman being involved with two or more men and in some of them she didn't know at first who these strangers were (blindfolded or in a dark room). I didn't share this with my husband because I thought he may react badly. Even though this seemed to be what he wanted, how would he respond to his wife thinking this was exciting? Would even the thought make him jealous? Could my interest in such things hurt my marriage? Besides, I was a little embarrassed to discuss it, even with him.

About seven years into our marriage, something happened to change everything. Our daughter was staying with his parents for the weekend. On Saturday night we went partying at a local club with some friends of ours, Davis and his girlfriend Elizabeth. We had know Davis since we started dating and both considered him our friend. We danced for hours and managed to drink two bottles of wine between us. About eleven, Elizabeth starting having a migraine that made her ill. She asked Davis to take her back to her apartment and he agreed. Before he left, Dan invited him over to our apartment later if he would like. Around midnight we decided to head home. Once there, I changed and feeling quite a buzz, went to bed.

The next thing I remember was Dan waking me up and asking if I wanted to have a threesome with Davis. I was still sleepy and had little to no reaction at that moment. I remember him saying that it was completely up to me, that he loved me, and if I decided to go ahead with it, to come into the living room. All I could hear in there was the 8mm projector running and figured that they were watching some films Dan had bought at a local porno shop. As it turns out, I was right. Not only were they watching those films, but Dan had shown him the 15 minute film of me he had taken. But I didn't find this out until later.

As I woke up, the idea intrigued me. I have always liked Davis and trusted him. I was also beginning to wonder what it would be like having another man inside me. To this day I can't tell you what made me get up, go into the bathroom, clean up, put on a pair of lace panties and my robe, and go into the living room. I do remember I was as nervous as a cat and couldn't say or do much at first. The great thing is, I didn't have to.

They were both sitting on the large couch watching a film involving, you guessed it, two men and a woman. I noticed that they had finished another bottle of wine. If its possible, I think Davis was more nervous than I was, which I found strangely cute. Dan seemed delighted to see me which actually made me a little angry for a minute. Dan asked me to sit between them and he began talking about the film and asking me what I thought of the things on the screen. I should mention that this was summer and both of the guys were wearing shorts. Their reaction to the movies and my presence was obvious! I found myself glancing at the outline of Davis' penis which seemed impressive. It was at this point that Dan started to rub my breasts through my robe. It was a light silky robe and he tells me my nipples were sticking out a mile. I remember it felt great and I started to relax. He then asked Davis if he would like to join in? Davis said yes and then just looked at me. I told him it was OK and he started to feel my other breast through my robe. I rested my head back on the couch and before I knew it both of my breasts were uncovered and there was a mouth on each.

After a few minutes of this, Dan stood up and took off his shorts and told Davis to do the same. I sat there glaring at them for what seemed forever. Davis is a taller man than Dan and his penis was longer but thinner. I also noticed that Davis' testicles hung down quite a bit further, even when he was excited. Dan sat down and asked me to stand up and suggested Davis remove my robe and panties. Feeling his hands on me left a tingling feeling all over my body and I thought I was going to lose it when he got on his knees and slowly pulled down my panties. It was actually difficult to remain standing.

I don't remember as many details as Dan does after that. I remember laying back on the couch and giving Dan head while Davis ate me. Davis had a beard and feeling it against my inner thigh was exciting. I don't know if he was good at it or it was just having a strange tongue down there, but I must have come twice while he was doing it. I was so excited, I had to be careful not to bite Dan in my excitement. Previous to that evening, I never enjoyed giving head, but I was giving my husband great head that night.

After a while, Davis started moving up between my legs, kissing my stomach and breasts. I could feel the head of his penis against the sensitive area of my inner thigh and I was ready. I stopped sucking Dan for a moment and reached down and guided Davis into me. Once he was in, I resumed pleasing my husband. I never realized that a different size penis can create different feelings in a woman. I especially remember that his testicles would slap against me every time he pushed in which was a new feeling for me that I found wickedly thrilling. So much so, I came again soon after he started moving in me. Dan didn't seem at all jealous, in fact he was enjoying the sight so much that he came in my mouth, something I hadn't allowed him to do before. Davis didn't last very long. It was probably the wine that keep them lasting as long as they did.

At this point Dan moved between my legs and entered me. His thickness stretched me a little and, strange as it may sound, after having adjusted to Davis, he felt unfamiliar which made it even more exciting. Davis knelt alongside the couch and started playing with and kissing my breasts. I decided not to offer giving him head. At that time that was a special gift for my husband only. I did have him move so I could play with his penis which soon became hard again.

After Dan came in me, we relaxed for a few minutes, at which time my husband left the room and returned with the KY jelly. He laid on his back on the floor and had me mount him and pulled me down so that our chests were touching. He then instructed Davis to smear some of the jelly on his penis and enter my ass. I should tell you that anal sex was not new to me. Occasionally I would allow Dan in there and unlike some women, I never experienced any pain. There are no words to describe the feeling of two penis heads moving in that close of area. Saying I felt completely full is an understatement. I experienced multiple orgasms (unusual for me at the time) before they both came. Dan finished first and moved out from under me. I saw him watching us on the floor and playing with himself so I decided to give him something to watch. Smiling at my husband, I reached between my legs and started playing with Davis' testicles which were as hard as rocks. A few minutes later I could feel him coming in me. I later realized that having a man in your ass and vagina was a scene from one of the films we had that Dan particularly liked.

After that we showered separately and Davis left. Dan was so charged that we made very passionate love before falling off to sleep. The next morning, I couldn't believe what had happened and didn't know how to feel about it. Dan seemed fine and our marriage wasn't hurt. But I was concerned that we would lose the friendship of Davis. How could I ever face him again? But everything turned out OK. We continued to remain great friends and life went on just as it had before.

Before closing, I would like to add that we repeated our threesome with Davis six years later and it was different and better, but that's another story. We have also been involved in several other adventures, some stranger than others, that have definitely spiced up our sex life. But none would have been possible without the above encounter occurring and going so well. I learned that I could trust my husband to react positively and became more relaxed with my sexuality. Although we didn’t know it at the time, that night opened up a new lifestyle that we both enjoyed for several years.