Our first swinging experience was last night. It was part of my new years resolution to make this happen. We started by filling out a 3x5 card with our personal information on it, height, weight, age, and the kind of people we were looking for. We also put our PO BOX# on it so we wouldnt be bothered by every joker that saw the card. A small PO BOX is cheap and it allows you to get mail somewhere other than your home address. We then put those up at the local adult book stores, there are two here in the Grand Jct area. Then we just waited. I received a response from a couple here in town that said they were intrested in us and they also gave us a picture to look at. I quickly sent them back photos of us and our home # so they could call us if they liked what they saw. It was the next day when i got the call, they wanted to meet us right away. We aranged to meet them at, Baileys, a bar at the Ramada inn. We meet them there and talked for a couple of hours, they told us there were many swingers in the Grand Jct. area and that they are part of a group that gets together every couple weeks for a swing party. they told us that the people were not pushy, it is a "go at your own pace" type of setting, and most importantly of all, NO MEANS NO. If your not comfortable with something, no one will go against your wishes. That to me is what sets apart true swingers and those out there who only care about getting what they want. We were lucky as hell because they told us that a party was being held the next night, which was last night. We told them that we would try to come and watch how things work because we didn't know if we were going to be able to actualy go through with it. They gave us the address and we said good night. I can tell you we were nervous as hell all day long wondering if we even had the nerve to show up. But i decided that if we were ever going to do it, this was the best oppertunity we were going to have. I didn't want to put it off any longer and becides, we didn't have to do anything, just watch and join only if we wanted to. We got there about 9pm and were the last people to show up. We were met by the owner of the house at the door where we were invited inside and introduced to about 6 other couples, one couple being the couple we had met the night before. We sat down and started visiting with the other couples about things that you might talk to anyone at any a party about. People were milling around between the main room and the garage (if you had to smoke they wanted it done in the garage) which is ok with me scince i quit 2 years ago. The garage was fixed into a sitting room, it was heated and very nice, they had chairs all the way around and a thickly carpeted area in the middle. It was also lit with candels and some lava lamps. A stereo played softly in the room as well. We spent a good 2 hours siting and talking to people about daily events and found that many of them were into the same things that we are into. The man of the house loved swinging. but his wife wasn't into it, she didn't mind him doing what he liked and she sometimes enjoyed watching him with other people.We did find out that she did swing sometimes but only with a select few people that she enjoyed. That was her choice and everyone respected that. After a while the owner, one of the men, and another mans wife decided that they wanted to get into the hot tub. They went to a back room and got undressed, Towels were provided, and they got into the hot tub that was located just out the back door. It was clearly visible from the room we were siting talking in by looking through the large windows. Me and the wife remained in the room talking to some others while watching them out the window. It wasnt long before we saw the two men start fondeling the young lady in the tub, that's when we decided it was time to take a dip ourselves. The wife of the other man in the tub also decided to go out and watch her husband have fun. We got undressed, grabed some towels and headed for the tub. There were now 6 of us, naked, in the hot tub. The womans husband was busy fucking the other lady and we just watched. It was an experience in and of itsself, but not the best of what was going to happen. After they were done they both got out to go have a smoke. That left me and my wife, the man who left's wife and the man who owned the house, in the tub. The owner and the other man's wife began kissing and fondeling one another and we decided that we would try having some sex while they were busy with one another. We were realy just testing to see if we could actualy do it in front of others while they were doing the same thing. I finaly got the nerve and asked my wife to blow me while i watched them. She had no problem with that and i sat up on the edge of the tub and she began to give me a great blowjob. I felt somewhat in the spotlight being the new couple, and found that i had a hard time keeping my attention on the blowjob, this of course made it hard for my dick to get and stay completly hard. By this time the other two were fucking away making waves in the tub. I got cold because while the tub was 105 it was outside and it was only in the 30's that night. I asked if she wanted to try fucking in the water in the tub and she said "lets go for it." I sat down and she sat on my dick and worked it into her pussy. She was facing away from me riding my cock so that she could see the other couple fucking also. After a few minuets, To my suprise, she asked me if i wanted to try the other lady. I asked her if she thought she would be ok seeing me with another woman and she said that she wouldnt know untill she saw it. I asked her if she wanted to try the other man and that i thought that it would be a good idea if we asked them if they wanted to trade. I told her it's only fair if i'm going to try another woman in front of her that i should get to see her with another man. Again to my suprise she said ok. You should know that by this time we had already had a few drinks and were starting to feel adventuresome. I said i don't know if they will want to trade but i would ask. I spoke up and asked them if they would be intrested in trading partners for a while, my wife added that i had been wanting to try another woman for some time and we thought that we were ready to give it a go. They were happy to comply. I watched for the first time as another man took my wife on his lap and began to fuck her. I was so intrested in watching her reaction as he fucked her it was imposible for me to concentrate on the lady that was sucking on my neck as she rode me. No jealous feelings ever intered my mind, it was pure sexual intrest. I found myself hoping that she was enjoying herself. I knew that if she didn't like it that it would be the last time we ever did anything like this. I could tell she was enjoying it because i started hearing those familiar sounds that i was so used to hearing only in our own bedroom. It was an awsome feeling. Knowing that another man was fucking her and she was enjoying it. In my intrest over what was going on with my wife i noticed that i wasn't giving the lady on my lap the service that she needed. My dick just wouldnt stay completly hard. I was having such a good time watching that i couldnt concentrate.After a few minuets the man with my wife, the house owner, asked if we wanted to go indoors and continue in the garage, on the rugs that had been set up, so that we could be more comfortable. We all agreed and went inside. We were in the garage and everything realy started there. We began to dry ourselves and i watched as he reached over and began helping my wife dry herself. He also ran his hands over her body in a loving way and i again found myself lost in watching the two of them. There were others in the room but no one else was fucking at the time. They were watching us as the lady began sucking my cock. The man layed my wife on the rug and began eating her pussy. I was overwhelmed with feelings, but they were all good feelings. She opened herself to him looking up at me as if for approval. I just smiled and watched. It was the most intense feeling i've ever felt, It is one that i can't explain but it was just an open trusting feeling that i knew that she was enjoying herself and i was enjoying her joy. We finaly gave ourselves over to the pleasure and i watched as he mounted her and fucked her hard. She was moaning and groaning and he came deep inside her. I know he enjoyed it also because of the way he was thrashing around as he filler her up. I was still fucking the woman when they finished and i continued fucking as my wife left for the bathroom to clean herself up. I wasn't able to cum untill my wife came back and switched with the other lady. I think i was too worked up by the sight of her with someone else for the first time to get myself going. I fucked my wife there on the carpet with her sitting on top riding me, and i came within a few minuets. We cleaned up again and went back for more, Let me just say that by the end of the evening i had several of my faniasies preformed. I saw my wife get eaten by the husband of the lady i had fucked while she sucked my dick. My wife even went down on another woman. I personaly got to fuck a woman while another woman was 69ing her. I would fuck her for a while and then the other lady would suck the juce off of my cock. We did so many things that i would be writing forever trying to tell it all so use your imagination, and we probably did it. It was the best time of our 10 years of marage. If you have never tryed it i suggest you do because it is very intense. It's not for everyone so make sure your ready mentaly before you do. I know that my writing ability is lacking and i have never writen anything like this before in my life. I hope that you can tell that we had a very good experience and are planing on going to the next party. We will be doing this over and over again. It's that much fun.